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Causes of Jealousy

For jealousy, ALWAYS there are reasons, but not always they are in the partner. This article is about the psychological grounds of jealousy. I hope that this knowledge will bring strength, which will help to understand and cope with morbid jealousy. Its and others’ We are jealous of those or those that clearly or unconsciously consider ours, even if the object of jealousy or people from the side of such ownership seems out of place. Why? One time in my childhood I lived in a communal apartment. I was always amazed that the private rooms of the owners were thoroughly neat and tidy, refurbished and clean, but common spaces (kitchen, bathtub, etc.) were in stark contrast to the bad condition – lack of repair, beauty of the environment, and sometimes elementary cleanliness. And I saw this situation far not in one communal apartment – common ownership everywhere and always was perceived as a draw, and was poorly maintained. His property, as a rule, was kept in care and order. Is jealousy healthy? The feeling of ownership is a completely healthy feeling. In this case, the experience: “This is mine” has two sides. On the one hand, it encourages us to groom and cherish the object of our property, demonstrating a zealously caring attitude towards it. On the other hand, the sense of ownership encourages us to zealously guard the object from strangers, so that they don’t take it away so as not to lose it. Feeling of zealous property, or belonging, to an adequate degree, of course, is a normal, healthy part of love. My friend and his wife...

How to Do Everything Planned on Time – 20 Tips

If you are reading this article, then you obviously don’t have enough 24 hours a day and the question “How to manage everything?” You are still looking for an answer. Lack of punctuality seriously interferes in life. It leads to the fact that a lot is not done on time, and hence constant steams at work and study, experiences, stresses. Therefore, all the time on time is important for the preservation of health. Our article will help you understand the causes of this problem and give a number of practical tips for its elimination. The reasons for “failure” Inability to rationally plan time will be the first honorable place among all the reasons. How can you manage everything, if yesterday you spent about two hours to communicate on the phone, and today you stared at the talk show? Imposing unbearable duties on yourself. Lack of personal diary with time planning and success. Broken attention, inability to concentrate on doing one thing. Where to begin? To all have time to the brain must actively function. To do this, you first need to sleep. Norm for an adult – 7-8 hours a day, don’t forget about it! Start eating properly. A certain regime and healthy food, including fresh fruits and vegetables, will enrich the body with the right resources. This will give you energy, health and support the functioning of the brain. Go in for sports, its benefits for a person are boundless, starting from the morning charge, giving a charge of cheerfulness for the whole day, ending with serious training that provides strong immunity. Similarly, physical activity causes the release...

What to Do 12 Days After the Birthday According to the Stars

We are born for happiness. Mass of holidays, but for a person the most important is his day of birth – a personal celebration. On this day, the Sun again takes a position at the beginning of the birthday. The stars are ready and happy to make dreams come true! However, this requires some effort of the person. You are given special energy on this day, use it for your own good. Day 1. Personality Your thoughts should be about personal realization. It’s advisable to carry out the thought process with your own head, thinking about personal interests, you will correct the interference of the person. No one will help you better yourself. You are responsible for your own destiny, not your parents, friends or government. Be honest with yourself, look at yourself soberly, after removing the “pink” glasses. Are you satisfied with the picture? The path is open to new horizons – just want it! Day 2. Money Present yourself a present. Anything, even a dress, dreaming at night, even a lollipop, even a villa on the beach. Ideally send yourself a money transfer or in some other way you need to replenish your bank account, the amount doesn’t matter. By this action, you promote the activation of personal financial flows, and the whole year you will not know the cash problems. Day 3. Luck In any way communicate with relatives, colleagues, neighbors, friends, classmates. Look at the popular forum on the Internet. Drive around the city by car. Sign up for some courses. In general, move and communicate. Then all year long luck will be in your...

The 5 Boring Zodiac Signs

Some people tend to be more tedious than others. Who is this and why? We made a rating of the five most boring signs of the zodiac. Capricorn One of the most boring signs of the zodiac is Capricorn. He has since childhood become self-sufficient and avoids the company of frolicking children. While the rest of the children are jumping through an elastic band and doing other fun, he is more inclined to swing on a swing and think about life. He completely immerses himself and becomes like a little dreamy philosopher. Capricorn-child uninteresting entertainment of their peers, he considers their pranks stupid and frivolous. In the role of little Capricorn is a special charm. This is a dreaming, wise, romantic child, who must be given to a music school or other clubs. If this is not done, the creative energy of the little Capricorn, his brilliant thinking abilities, given to him by Saturn, will stagnate or disappear altogether. That’s when the problems begin: Capricorn from a charming, dreamy child-philosopher turns into a grumpy old man who is always unhappy with life and everything that surrounds him. He becomes unbearably pessimistic, cold and calculating. Not finding a creative niche, men and women-Capricorns begin to give themselves completely and completely to their careers, home troubles, anything, but not to themselves. Surrounding immediately becomes bored next to a person who is obsessed with only his problems, who doesn’t see that every day can be not a gray spot, but a small adventure. Capricorns should communicate with their polar signs – Gemini, Sagittarius, who are always cheerful and full of life. They...

11 myths About Diets. It’s Time to Stop Believing

Stereotypes about nutrition, which have long been denied by scientists.  1. Healthy lifestyle is an endless diet.  We are used to think that people who lead a healthy lifestyle, limit themselves in everything, can not relax and allow themselves excess and are forced to eat what does not bring pleasure. In fact, this is not so. They just know how to combine pleasure with pleasure and enjoy a healthy and balanced meal. They do not need to constantly count calories, as it happens on a diet, and look at the clock, as if inadvertently not to violate any prohibition. Proper and balanced nutrition is not fasting at all, but just other habits and eating behavior, a lifestyle that is aimed at maintaining a wonderful state of health and a good mood. 2. There are fat–burning foods. Of course, it would be wonderful if there were really food in the world, after using which you could wake up quite a different person – slim and beautiful. Those who blindly believe in the magic properties of pineapple, garlic, papaya or algae, it is not superfluous to think how they will solve the problem suddenly, not suddenly, but in the course of a long–term wrong way of life? In principle, all these products are in themselves useful and worthy of being regularly present in your menu, but hoping for their immediate fat burning effect is simply pointless. This also applies to some burning spices such as ginger and red pepper. Their ability to speed up the metabolism is so insignificant that it is not worth seriously counting on it in the matter of losing...

What Qualities It’s Necessary to Develop Signs of the Zodiac?

We are all a container of merits and demerits, and the proportions of this content are all of their own, and many have certain positive features at all. “Thanks to” the zodiac, each of us sometimes has a particularly distinct and tangible something missing: someone – restraint, someone – the ability to forgive, someone – optimism. And today we will tell you what qualities you need to develop the signs of the Zodiac in order to get closer to the ideal. Aries (March 21 – April 20) Aries is worth developing circumspection. You often act on the principle: “Why think? It is necessary to jump! »- and this leads to sad consequences. Before you get involved in any long-term “fight” (project, relations, commitments), don’t forget to look mentally at least for a couple of months ahead and imagine how you will live with all this, whether it will bore you, whether you will find forces to do this with complete dedication without loss of quality and with an excellent result. Taurus (April 21 – May 20) Taurus for complete happiness lacks flexibility. Not in the sense of making a bridge or tied up in a sea knot, and the elementary ability not to rest on the horn when more benefit from a healthy and constructive compromise. So start struggling with your inherent stubbornness: it’s good only at the moments of overcoming obstacles, and not during dialogues with those who are trying to agree with you about something. With conservatism, too, something needs to be done: the new is far from always worse than the usual and tested. Develop it....