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How to Get Through a Divorce Without Tears and Stress?

Often a divorce is given to women hard, plunging into apathetic or vice versa, an aggressive-hysterical state. But after all parting with her husband can easily survive, remaining happy and confident. How to avoid psychological injuries during a divorce? Why, despite finding the desired freedom, life after the divorce turns into an even greater hell than the divorce itself? When a divorced person passes through 4 stages on the road to recovery: Stage 1. Acute pain Duration from 2 weeks to 2 months. Characterized by a sense of hopelessness, loneliness, self-pity. Stage 2. Adaptation Duration from 2 to 6 months. You start making plans for the future, smiling again. You can talk about a partner without bitterness and resentment, stop feeling like a victim, start to notice other men. Stage 3. Recovery Duration from 6 months to a year. This is the time when you again become involved in life, start thinking about a new love, restore peace of mind. You can talk calmly with your ex-husband, look to the future with optimism, you are less likely to be remembered. Also you can really assess the reasons for the divorce and draw conclusions so as not to repeat mistakes in the future. Stage 4. Normalization Duration from 1 year to 2 years. You stand firmly on your feet, get rid of the pain, a new social climate, new friends, and maybe even love, is formed around you. There are new habits, you learned lessons from past mistakes. You rarely remember the former chosen one and are ready for a new love. You like your new life. But how do you get through...

How Each Zodiac Sign Reacts to Betrayal?

Someone is ready to commit a suicide after acknowledge the fact that he was cheated on. And someone does not mind getting an affair on the side, and therefore also loyal to the «adventures» of a partner. How do different signs behave when they find out about partner’s betrayal? Aries (March 21 – April 20) He, of course, will be enraged. Curiously, Aries does not consider an affair as a sin, although sometimes strong love can restrain their sexual intentions. Taurus (April 21-May 20) If Taurus is married, then treason will be a real blow for him. But out of a wedlock, he is quite capable of making an affair with several people at the same time. Gemini (May 21 – June 21) Loyalty is not about Gemini. They calmly can have a bit on the side and do not even consider themselves as guilty ones. But the partner’s infidelity can lead Gemini into a state of frenzied anger. Cancer (June 22 – July 22) Cancer will never betray beloved one, marriage is sacred to him. But the betrayal of a partner can lead him into a real shock and getting out of it will be damn difficult. Leo (July 23-August 22) Leo takes adultery quite easily, if no one finds out, then he denies himself the pleasure of get an affair. Although if the betrayal will be on the partner’s head, he will hardly react favorably – how can you prefer someone else to him? Virgo (August 23 – September 22) The people, who are exactly the one who criticize betrayal always and everywhere. However, nothing human is...

Getting Revenge On Your Ex: Is It Worth It?

“People meet each other, fall in love, get married.” It’s like the song. But in the real life people quarrel, they are jealous and break up. Not always in a good way. And often the resentment turns into a strong desire to take revenge on person who has made the decision to broke up. In order to restore justice. Getting revenge on your ex: is the game worth the candle? Writing a script So, he left you. Of course, in this role it is not easy to save your face and not to throw a heavy cobblestone right to him. But … Try to cool your ardor and cut losses. It is better to write an angry letter, not stinting on expressions. Send it or not – your decision, but throwing a grudge on paper or in a computer file will make you feel much better. Describe what you felt when he came with his new girlfriend to visit his friends and when she “brazenly” hugged him. If you are a creative person, think up a script to the film of your revenge. Describe, for example, the trial of the abuser, which will involve all his acquaintances, and maybe even enemies. Let him be sentenced to death. Or take as a basis for any real fact. For example, an Italian girl thrown by a friend sent out his candid photos on a random e-mail. She was not too lazy to create a site with his photo and unveiled there the phone of “offender”, indicating that he performs sex servants. The court assessed the “creativity” of the girl in 2 years...

How to Be the Perfect Woman? Accepting a Man: The Main Secret of Happy Relations.

For some reason, men know how to love women in any way and in any condition. By some miracle, men know how to accept us with all our “women’s tricks”, thousands of types of creams for the most unexpected parts of the body, hair in the bathroom drain, “monthly” panties, orange lipsticks, candid photos in Instagram, seasonal and monthly mood changes and all-consuming jealousy. They just understand that women, in principle, are slightly similar to each other and have similar things. Therefore, they accept the rules of the game, they go with us to shopping centers, and with a bored look, they catch Pokemon, while we try on dozens of uniforms, drive us to work, let them go to the birthdays of their girlfriends and take the drunk home, silently clean the drain in the bathroom and wait, when we have “these days”. At us, women, all is much more difficult. We want to be strong, independent, yet gentle and vulnerable, to be cared for and embraced by strong hairy hands. “Women categorically don’t know how to accept men with all their giblets. We definitely need to “include a mother” and begin to educate an adult man “for himself.” Unfortunately, such grown-up children are already very much liable to change, if a man doesn’t suit you, there are only two ways: leave him to the mercy of fate and go looking for someone who is better suited; or to accept and accept it as it is.”. But how to accepting a man? This is very difficult, accepting a man, because you just have to break all your stereotypes and change...

Why Do Man Leave a Woman? Only Obvious Reasons.

Why do men leave woman? Why do men leave the family? What should a man do with a woman for as long as she wants? Which women don’t leave men? Why does a man move away, and after a while makes itself felt again? After reading the article, you say goodbye to the beliefs imposed by society and you will be able to manage your relations with a man. You will understand that everything is in your hands. And most importantly, my task is to show the simplicity of this issue and get you out of the labyrinth of misunderstanding. If you read this, then most likely the man has left you or from the family, or you are together, but you are afraid that he will leave sooner or later. If it’s already relevant, then you can find out how to return the man. In the meantime, continue on the topic. Women don’t distinguish between two fundamentally different concepts: “a man leaves” and “a man moves away”. Let’s start with the first one. A man doesn’t leave a woman for another woman. A man leaves from one state near a woman to another state near another woman. Yes, the man who was leaving didn’t leave you, but from the state he felt near you. If you go to women’s forums on the request “why men leave”, then in the vast majority of cases, we can conclude that the reason is in men. “They need everything new … Any woman bothers a man … Another is more beautiful … Breast is bigger … Pop is more pumped … Younger...

Complexes of Men and Zodiac Signs

Each person has fears and complexes. Despite this, the representatives of the stronger sex diligently deny their presence or simply hide them from others. From our article you can find out from which complexes men of different Zodiac signs suffer. There are drawbacks for every person, and sometimes they are the reason for our complexes, which are not so easy to get rid of. As it turned out, men are no less likely than women to suffer from complexes, even though they try to carefully hide them from other people. This opinion is not limited to psychologists, but also astrologers. They claim that it’s possible to solve such secrets of men with the help of the zodiac. We will tell you about what complexes are peculiar to men of different Signs of the Zodiac. Aries Representatives of this Sign are accustomed to living in a constant struggle. Their main desire is to be the first always and everywhere. As a rule, they always achieve career heights, are popular with women, and get everything they want. However, even such strong and self-assured men have complexes. To recognize him enough to make Aries doubt that everything is perfect in his life. Noticing that others doubt his superiority, he immediately closes in himself. In order for the complexes to disturb Aries as little as possible, it’s enough to prove to him that everything happens in his life as he wants. If he believes that among his colleagues he is the most intelligent and talented — confirm this. If it seems to him that he stopped attracting the attention of women, try to...